I borrowed this awesome todo list from fellow June 2010 knottie hippie4yahweh

Things to Decide: Pretty long list

Budget (Check)
Date (Check)
Guest List (Check)
Bridal Party (Check)
Color Scheme (Check)
Type of DRESS (Check)
Types of Flowers (Check)

Centerpieces (Check)
Reception Decorations (Check)
Ceremony Decorations (Check)
Type of Catering/ Food (Check)
Type of Dessert- Cake? Cupcakes? Full dessert table? (Check)
Honeymoon (Deposit paid)
Linens- White/ Cream or Specialty? (Check)
Paper Products- Style? Design? Types? (Check)


Things to Book

Caterer- (Deposit)
Ceremony & Reception Site (Check)
DJ- (Deposit)
Photographer (Check)
Officiant (Check) 
Alterations (Check)
Make Up Artist (?) (I think I'm going to do this on my own..)
Hairstylist (Check)
Manicure & Pedicure Appointment for Day Before Wedding (Check)
Rehearsal Dinner site (Check)
Night Before/ Wedding Night Lodging (Check) 
Honeymoon (Check)
Linens (Check)


Things to Do:

My Gown (Had final fitting, picking up day before)
My Accessories (Check)
Bridesmaid Dresses (Check)
My ladies' accessories (Check)
Tuxedos/ Suits
Paper Supplies:
-Invites/ Envelopes (Check)
-Invite Inserts/Maps (Check)
-Response Cards/ Envelopes (Check)

-Save The Dates (Check)
-Thank Yous
-Place Cards (?)
-Programs (Check)
-Signs
-Send Invites (Check)
-Bathroom Baskets (Need signs, supplies bought)
 -Reserved Seating Signs (Check)
-Card Box (Check)


-Flowers (Check)
Floral Supplies (Check)
Paper Lanterns (Check)

CP Supplies:
-Vases
-Candles
-Etc

Register for Gifts (2 down... 1 to go)
Wedding Bands
Favors 
Parents' Gifts (Just need to wrap them)
BP Gifts
Get Engagement Photos Taken
Schedule and Attend Dress Fittings
Schedule Hair & Make-Up Trial
Write Thank-You Notes for Shower
Make List of Must-Take Pictures for Photographer
Write Thank-You Notes for Wedding


The Weeks Before:

Plan Rehearsal Dinner
Finalize Menu and Service Details
Apply for Marriage License
Confirm Honeymoon Reservations
Finish/ Submit Seating Plan
Wrap Bridal Party Gifts
Change of Name Paperwork
Prepare Toasts or Thanks to Guests
Give Wedding-Day Directions, Schedule and Contact List to Parents, Bridal Party and Vendors
Give Final Head-Count to Caterer
Confirm Final Payment Amounts with Vendors
Confirm Location, Date and Time with Photographer
Confirm Date, Location, Time and Playlist with DJ
Pack Bags for Honeymoon
Leave Honeymoon Itinerary with Parents
Rehearse Ceremony
Drop Off Required Materials to Venue